Wake Up Smit

This is my Blog, I'll write what I think, what I like to share with everyone. I do not claim to be the originator of all collections here. I get these through, email, books, movies amongst other sources; makin it difficult to always give credit to the Author. It is just my attempt to liven up LIFE which is in any case too serious. There is no discrimination - racial or otherwise involved. If you see something you do not like, please feel free to move on!

Wednesday, May 30, 2012

Dear students, I wish you many job rejections


This is Speech from, one of my fav. news reader, Suhasini Haider, from CNN IBN. It shows tough life of journalist. But more then that, when you go to real field of job or business, nothing matters. Not your back ground, qualification. NOTHING. Only thing matters is hardwork and passion.
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To the graduating students of WMA - it really is an honour to address you today. To begin with, Congratulations! I am sure you must have heard a lot about how tough the business is right now, how difficult it is to find jobs in journalism, and I want you to know...it's all true.
You know about 15 years ago I hit a job market a bit like the one you will face when you go out. It wasn't that it was hard to get a job in television... it was just impossible.
I countered 7 rejections - one 'please come back next year', one 'please don't call me again', even one 'Can you give me a job?', and I had one last interview to do. This wasn't a job in news, it was a marketing job for a documentary channel. I showed up with my CV, very eager to get the job.
I earned my journalism degree at Boston University, then worked at the UN, at CNN in New York. I had been a Producer for CNN in Delhi for a few years when I quit. I was reeling all this off to the gentleman sitting in front of me, who listened quietly. At the end of it all here's what he said to me:
"I don't need to tell you are qualified. You are qualified. And you could probably talk yourself into this job. You are confident. I can tell you will make a go of it... you may even learn to like the job. You are flexible. But somewhere in your heart, you will hate me for giving you the job - because your passion is news. And I don't want you to hate me, so sorry, but I am not giving you the job."
My dear graduates, I am going to hope for you that each of you gets rejected for a job in exactly the same way... because if you don't understand what your passion is, it helps to have an interviewer that does. Because in the profession you have chosen, there will be many reasons to quit, and only one reason to stay - and that is the passion to tell a story.
You must think I am weird - you've invited me to address you on your graduation, and here I am wishing you job-rejections. If you think that's bad, let me tell you what else I wish for you:
1. I wish for you a really mean boss - one who makes you cry. Let's be honest... this is a tough business.. one where you have to push and bully your way to a story. You need to develop a thick skin early on. One of my first professional memories was of being pushed off a ladder in a media stampede outside a court, when I got thrown to the floor and the mic dropped from my hand. Instead of giving me any sympathy, my cameraman fired me up. I learned right then, both in the field and in my newsroom, you have to stand still as others try to push you around. So when the boss blows you up for missing the big interview of the day, you learn to go to the washroom, weep a little, and then go get the interview. If you get a boss who says, 'Never mind, next time...', honestly, you will get nowhere in the business.
2. I wish for you many, many days spent in the heat. So much of our job requires you to stand on someone else's footpath, waiting for the person who lives inside to come out or go in, it's a great thing to get used to. You will make many friends along the way, as sitting around on a sidewalk doing nothing but sweating all day is a great time to start a conversation. Sometimes the scoop of the day goes to the reporter who stays on that sidewalk the longest. Last month, I reached the sidewalk outside Aung San Suu Kyi's house. I didn't get to speak to her that morning, but I did make friends with Tai Chi Toe, her dog.
3. I wish for you many unwell colleagues. That does sound horrid, but honestly, it's how I got most of my early breaks. You get sent on an assignment only because someone else is indisposed. All I can say is, learn to thank those colleagues, and always say yes to any opportunity to fill-in.
4. I wish for you assignments in places where telephones and computers don't work, because the joy of heading out to a remote area, where you work on one story for 3 days without having to report back, no hour-on-hour deadline pressure is something you must do. My own favourite story was covering a computer programme that helped fishermen predict storms and tsunamis. To shoot, we had to wake up at 3 am to go out with the fishermen, and then come back to the beach and watch as they returned with their nets full of fish... 3 hours, just the sound of the waves, practically alone on southern India's spectacular coromandel coast......pure happiness.
5. I wish for you interviews with many eccentric quirky people... because those are the ones who will give you the story. The polite, politically correct, and very bland ones never will.
6. I could go on, but because I am not completely evil, I wish for you understanding parents. Especially when they realise you will not be able to move out of home very quickly. My first salary paid for my conveyance costs, my second one only took care of meals on every alternate day. You will never get brilliantly paid in this business, and as I said earlier, the only reason to stay is because you love the profession. They will have to be understanding in other ways. Jammu-Kashmir elections in 1996 ended one week before my wedding. I remember my mother actually called me and threatened to call it off if I didn't come home to choose my sari. Two days before the wedding, my boss offered me an assignment in Afghanistan, where President Najibullah had just been hanged. Okay... that one, I didn't take up. As you grow older, I will wish for you understanding husbands, wives and children. When I walked out of the house on the day after Christmas in 2004 to report on the tsunami, I told my kids I would be back for lunch. Lunch, yes, but two weeks later.
7. Finally, I hope that along the way, you learn to love what you do. That you watch out for the strange things you will learn along the way, from the least expected people: I learned from General Pervez Musharraf that he only joined the Army to make his mother happy. Why did his mother want him to? Because she liked the uniforms! That Narendra Modi's mother won't live with him unless he got married, or she would have to take care of him, rather than being taken care of... that Prime Minister Manmohan Singh's wife last remembers going on a family vacation in 1976 (Nainital). And Ted Turner doesn't use the internet, but always ensures he has a girlfriend who can handle his e-mail.
There's no real end-goal here, unlike other professions. There aren't too many promotions in journalism, no clear-cut career path, a handful of role models, and no retirement age. With that in mind, enjoy every bit of the journey, my dear graduates... it's all you've got!


From,

Love,
Smit

Saturday, May 19, 2012

The Motorcycle Diaries

There are few decisions in life, which decide not only your faith and future, but also have very deep impact on future generation. There are few things that change thinking of generation and even more. He was also on verge of such a decision.

There was a boy called 'ernesto', studying in his final semester of medicine and suppose to be doctor in year. But then he decided to see world around him. Decided to take a break from study and see America. He decided to roam in America on bike with his friend 'alberto' and then......

Then it was the Story that every child dream of.. Story that every youth want to be part of... Story that every older person share with younger generation to share his knowledge and pride.. Story of discovering america.. Story of discovering Humanity... Story to believe what a human being can do if he take will to do that..

In January 1952, Alberto and Ernesto started their journey on their bike "The Mighty One". They started from Argentina and decided to trip around whole america, to see how people are living, what they do for life and everything? When they started they were not pretty sure how it goes...but when journey is completed Ernesto had wrote in his diary..

"This isn't a tale of heroic feats. It's about two lives running parallel for while, with common aspirations and similar dreams. was our view too narrow, too biased, too hasty? Were our conclusions too rigid? May be.. Wandering around our America has changed me more then I thought, I am not me anymore,   At least I am not the same me I was. "

Well, I am not talking about their journey, because I can't explain it here.. It needs to be feel.. It needs to imagine.. One of best movies I have ever seen.

We all know ernesto as "Ernesto "Che" Guevara" ,  who is symbol of  Rebelness and  Transition. After this journey, He felt about his contrymen, about their rights, and way they need to understand world. Che went on to fight for his ideals in the Congo and Bolivia where he was captured., and murdered in October 1967.
He is symbol of youth now. There are tons of stories, about what he has done, how he bring rebel and everything. But Point of concern is why he become like this, How he get all feelings.. These all is only because of This journey..

These awsome moments..  Go watch movie or grab a book.. I am sure you will never regret it.. 




Love,
Smit

Friday, May 4, 2012

એક ડોસી ડોસાને હજી વ્હાલ કરે છે

કમાલ કરે છે, કમાલ કરે છે,
એક ડોસી ડોસાને હજી વ્હાલ કરે છે.

ડોસી  જાગે ત્યારે ચશ્માં આપે
અને બ્રશ ઉપર પેસ્ટને લગાડે,
લોકોનું કહેવું છે ડોસા  તો આમ કરી
ડોસી ને શાને બગાડે ?
મસાલા ચા અને ગરમ ગરમ નાસ્તો
ડોસી ડોસાનો કેવો ખ્યાલ કરે છે?

નિયમ પ્રમાણે દવા આપે છે રોજ
અને રાખે છે ઝીણું ઝીણું ધ્યાન,
બન્નેનો સંબંધ તો એવો રહ્યો છે
જાણે તલવાર અને મ્યાન.
દરમ્યાનમાં બન્ને જણ મૂંગાં મૂંગાં
એકમેકને એવાં તો ન્યાલ કરે છે.

પગમાં આવે જો ક્યાંક એકાદ પગથિયું
તો ડોસો ડોસીનો પકડી લે હાથ
ડોસો તો બેસે છે છાપાંના છાપરે
ને ડોશીને હોય છે રસોડાંનો સાથ


ડોસો તો પોતાના તાનમાં જીવે
કયારેક વહેલો આવે કે ક્યારેક મોડો.
બન્નેની વચ્ચે વહે આછું સંગીત
પણ બહારથી ધાંધલ-ધમાલ કરે છે


ડોસો વાંચે અને ડોસીને મોતિયો
બન્ને જણ વચ્ચે આવો છે પ્રેમ,
લડે છે, ઝગડે છે, હસે છે, રડે છે,
જીવન તો જળની જેમ વહેતું જાય એમ.
દોસ્ત જેવી દીકરીની હાજરીમાં બન્ને જણ
ઘરની દિવાલને ગુલાલ કરે છે 
 
સુરેશ દલાલ ની આ રચના ખરેખર હદય  ને સ્પર્શી જાય છે.. થોડા ફેરફાર સાથે મારા દાદા દાદી  ને સહજ ભાવે અર્પણ...
 
Love,
Smit

Wednesday, May 2, 2012

Beyond The Boundries

This is the time of year, where every graduate and post graduate student will become your Career Guide. Even he has done any of arts course, he will advise you about benifits and stream of Science and vice versa. I am going to write this blog for all those students who had appeared for 10th or 12th or Final Year of Graduation. I would like to give my view on Career Guidance

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First thing is that I am not going to recommand you any course or any stream or any other certificate thing here. Or even I will not tell you to choose Science, Commerce or Arts. Then What I will tell you? I will tell you, how to understand your career and what are the way to go for that?


Let's understand current scenario in Gujarat. If you have appeared for 12th, currently you are enjoying you vacation, but your parents were keeping very close eye on your future career options. If you are from science, they were trying to know which stream is good in engineering or in which stream you are having maximum chance to get job. you were also attending many seminars and googling things about engineering and all. If you are from commerce stream, you might be probabaly searching for some good BCA or BBA college or some courses like that, where you get some professional experience.

Now, after 2 months, all this things will be changed. Your result will be declared. You will have clear idea where you stand and bigger then that you will have idea, where you get admission. and you try to contact those institutes and check how is education, faculty and everything is there.


I dont want to discuss these points. Now I want to tell you about some myth, that experts used.

1.  Degree is not Important:

I heard many experts saying in seminaar that Degree is not important, Dhirubhai Ambani, Bill Gates and all are not having degree and all things.. but this is rubbish. Beacuse they have started work at age of 13-14. They were working for more then 15 hours per day for atleast 30-35 years of their life. Can we do that? NO. Then how can we compare ourselves with them.  There are millions of people in this world and Lakhs of people in Gujarat, who are struggling because they dont have degree.

Actually Degree is gateway to move forward, Degree is byporduct of what you learned in those 3 years. You must give your effort for those years, which teach you reality of life. When you try to get some job, they require some qualification. And there should be some criteria to choose that. that crietera is your Degree Certificate. We all discuss that Mr. Bill Gates is not having any degree. but same person's company will not give you job, if you are not having any degree or certificate, even though you are master in Computers or Technology.

2. Some Courses have more value then others:

Every course or every branch have a value. It's not in course. It's in you. Today society needs every type of Professionals. Though due to no. of professionals in industry, demand may decrease or increase. But demand is always there. And in this global world, there are lot of oppertunities in all fields.. Only thing is you have to take those oppertunities.

3.  100% job placement Guarantee

There is no course, which gives you this type of Guarantee. and even if they give you job. it's really tough to sustain it. It's your hardwork and dedication will pay off, wherever you work. Actually I believe you are not suppose to think about job or anything. at that time you need to learn that course. After that you can think or explore other options once you completed it successfully.

Other thing, they will tell you is you will get 2 lakh per annum or 5 lakh per annum job. but that's also myth. Salary or package is not that important. Important thing is your work, your attitude towards work.

4. I will do course because my friends are doing it.

This is not the thing you are suppose to think when you choosing your career. Because even though, you may be best friends, but you are coming from different families, different mind sets and most importantly different thinking. It may possible that you are not intersted in the course you choose. So Know yourself
and then move forward in it.

5. Hobbies and Passion

This is most important thing, while selecting career because hobby and passion are totally different thing. Hobby is one thing you do in time pass or at some part of day or week. but Passion is thing that runs you from inside. It runs you 24 X 7 for goal you wanted to achieve. Sachin Tendulkar is having Tennis and sports car as hobbies. but Cricket is his passion. You can choose careers like DJ, Chef, Movie Director, Writer or any other, which are bit out of box but for that you must have passion for that. Like you become DJ only because you like music. But it's not only that. You must have passion for music. You have great idea about musicians, musical instrument, live mixing and other things.


I hope you will not go for this myth. and concentrate on your ideology and thinking
If you require any other information regarding career you can mail me anytime.

wakeupsmit@gmail.com

Love,
Smit